Wednesday, May 12, 2021

How to master your mood swings and live happier( Written by Dr Raymond Nusura Mgeni)


In our World we live the word “mood” is not something new to many. It is a popular word together with the word swing. They all form collective word mood swings. It is normal to hear someone saying that “I don’t have moods today”. It is a real tormenting experience and influence thoughts and reactions that can make a day to be a bad day. Sad moods have resulted to boredom, aggression and feelings of inferiority and irritability.

Moods are hard to define, but everyone experiences them in life times. They are all origins of mental processes. Sad mood can advance to depression, sleep deprivation and other detrimental experience such suicidal ideas and attempts. Sad mood depletes energy and lowers efficiency in negative facet. When someone faces changes in moods especially sad mood. It is hard to be optimistic and this makes harder to cope to work and perform with creativity and attention.

It is true that daily events can make us change our moods or impact us directly in our mood. Events like, a loss of loved ones, unmet expectations, breakups, work pressures and diseases stress. This variation of moods is not a good sign when moods are extremes affect ones task performance.

Humor strategy can be a good remedy to deal with moods oscillations. Watching comedies and having fun can make you humorous and help you to be in a good mood. When we say good mood , we mean the one that gives you optimism, satisfaction and high energy or vibe.

Engaging in physical activity can be a quick fix to depleted nervous energy. Use of muscles can relieve muscle pain and fatigue. Mild exercise not only help in blood circulation to the whole body but also works as a way to recharge your body. It restores your vitality and favors your rest.

In more advanced level dealing with moods can be strengthening with divine rituals like having faith to God. It has been reported to be helpful for many to restore their states of depleted nervous energy.  

To some occasion is advised to have a habit of writing down your experience when you are in disturbed mood which is called “writing therapy”. Keeping your journal about yourself when you are in those situations, it helps a lot to track your awareness and relieve stress or eradicate sad mood. Lacking of awareness worsens the state you are in a mood less moments. You have to stop and see yourself existing in a present moment. Living in a present moment can help you to overcome mood changes.

Avoid negatives environments and people who can change your mood. Their words can change your perspectives and your thoughts and affect your emotions. Negative words have negative effect on your moods. It can cause your see yourself depressed. Only listening positive words or messages can motivate you. Is only positive words can uplift you and make you feel energetic. You can feel encouraged by positive message rather than negative messages.

If you are interested in art. Have a routine to see the beauty of arts. Look pictures and colors that give you purpose. Look deeply from those arts you will see energy from within. It will give you high vibration that will make you feel motivated and a fresh spirit. Listening and reading poems as a way to gain momentum and recharge your mind again.

Listen to music as a way to change your moods. If you feel depressed or mood less. Just have time to listen soft music or instrumental music. It is not only good music to listen but is kind of therapy to your soul. Listening to music will uplift your soul and give you hope when things are hard for you. Just have a calm environment and pay attention to music you listen. Listen details from musical instruments, melody, music message. These details will give you energy and renewal.

Do meditate or maintain silence for a while. Silence makes you calm. When you maintain silence you keep your mind settled. This time will help you to gain clarity. This time keep away all distractions from you. Be you and stay alone in a silence mood. It will help and make you recharge your body and spirit. 

But if all fails, it can be a mental issue that need attention by mental professionals. If you fail to settle with mood changes. Doctors and other mental health experts are to be consulted. Life has to be lived well and enjoyable despite life has endless sufferings.

Dr. Raymond Nusura Mgeni

raymondpoet@yahoo.com

+255 (0) 676 559 211

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